A relationship is an unpredictable thing. What happens with maximum of the twenty first century couples is, they are head over heel in love during their initial days, only to realize after a couple of months that their relationship is on rocks.In other words, being happy is one thing and figuring out that you have solid, long lasting relationship is entirely different. Thus, we have pointed out few signs that will allow you to recognize whether your relationship will work out or not.
- Getting Butterflies:
Getting a sinking feeling in your stomach, when you meet your date for the first time is all fine. That is natural because you hardly know the person. But if the same feeling persist even after three to four dates, then you need to think it over. According to relationship experts, we get butterflies when we are anxious about something. And if you have met your partner more than a couple of time, you should be at ease with him/her. A perfect match is one where both of you can be calm and comfortable.
- Maintaining Communication:
It is said that, “Couple who talk together, stays together.” And by saying this, it does not mean discussing about your favourite movie or most preferred music album. A couple who make out time to consider serious decisions about life, good happenings, bad feels and other such matter; generally stick long. By doing so, they not only listen to each other’s concern but also plan together how to overcome them, making their bond even more stronger.
- Accepting your Mistakes:
Being humans, none of us are perfect. Meaning to say, we all make mistakes at some point of time, intentionally or unintentionally. More than the mistake being committed, it is of more importance to accept it later and make attempts not to repeat it again. In spite of all the rough phases, if you agree upon what has been done and honestly take up responsibility to avoid it in the future, means your relationship will go the extra mile.
- When Together, Time Simply Flies:
When new in a relationship, time tends to fly off fast and if the same time still continues to pass by swiftly while in each other’s company, that means the spark between you two has not yet died out. But on the other hand, if you have to count your minutes till the dinner wraps up, it is a clear sign that you have already fallen out of the relationship. Then it is imperative to think over it twice before things get screwed up real bad.
- Many Things Are Common:
If relationship experts are to be believed, it is not imperative to date a photocopy of yours but yes, it is important to be in a relationship with someone who has similar interests in life.It has also been noted that a lot of people go on dates and talk about their jobs too much. You’re not the best match if that’s all you have in common.This is because when you two will grow out in the relationship, you both should have enough of common topics to discuss, things to enjoy together and to keep boredom out of the boundary. But, instead if you have to fish out for common activities or a reason to spend quality time, consider it as an unhealthy sign for your bond.
- Money Does Come In Between You Two:
Money is off course important, since it makes the complete world go round but then, it should also not be the prime factor of getting into a relationship. In other words, if you find yourself disconnected or irritated by the financial broke down or the rough monetary phase of your partner, then you should reconsider taking the relationship further.A bond will only be stronger if it can overcome the ups and downs of life, else it is a “no no” signal for you.
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